May 13, 2019
The majority of difference between what you get in this life and
what you want will be due to your decision making. A minority of
that difference will be due to chance/luck. Regardless of our age,
we can always make better decision for ourselves, starting today
and if we don't we will be part of someone else's plan.
So the question arises; "Why is anyone successful?" The answer is,
successful people approach decisions with caution and and make
decisions via evaluations with a clear mind. It is more about
taking control and less about being a victim. So you have to take
that control, the Universe has given it to you, it is in your
control to make a life you want.
So how to be Intentional? Decide that you are will your life
intentionally, it could be simple as something like when you wake
up in the morning you will do meditation for the 30 minutes or you
will exercise for 30 minutes to stay healthy. If you feel that your
energy is waving or you have got foggy brain, those are challenges
that are fixable. It is up to you to decide that you are going to
do something about it. Like, if you have a weight issue then you
will stop eating chips every night of the week or stop drinking
soda. Those are all intentional decisions in your life. If you
don't make the decision consciously and you let like happen to you,
then good luck, you are not going to have the life you are capable
of having, You are just going to go with the flow and be a part of
someone else's plan.
Very successful people consistently set goals and set their life up
intentionally. They decide how they want their life to look and
they put things in motion to make it happen. That doesn't mean you
are not going to have crap happen to you. You are still going to
have crap happen to you but how you respond to that crap is a big
thing. For example, if you're in an abusive relationship and you
got beat up everyday if you choose to stay there and choose to feel
like you don't have any other choices. Well, those are choices,
right? If I choose to Stay, I choose to stay. I do understand all
the different nuances and like that but ultimately many many people
get away from those kind of relationships and go on to thrive. Look
at Oprah, she was abused while she was young and had all other kind
of challenges. But she chose to make her life much much bigger than
the challenges she has.
If we want to live an intentional life, we have to change our
choices. So write it down and start by making a check list of
things that you want to intentionally live your life by and then
make it happen.
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